Limitations

This is a picture less post- something I rarely do. However, I want to remember my current thoughts. This morning we went to the arboretum. We go to the arboretum a lot. Recently I have discovered what I can and cannot do on my own with the three babies. For example, going to the pool on my own with them? No. I have learned that from recent experience. I can handle a short trip to Walmart or Target. I can handle one or two different playgrounds-the ones that are fenced in. And I can handle the arboretum. I used to try and be a super mom attempting to conquer doctor visits, haircuts, big shopping trips and the dentist all on my own. It was stressful and I couldn't be there for all of them like I needed to be. I would come home exhausted and frustrated. So we are staying home for the most part. We did get some fresh air today though. We walked around the arboretum and then got lunch at the cafe. While I was paying for our meal I turned around and saw both of my boys on the elevator-and the doors were closing! My back was turned for just a few seconds and off they went. I was able to stop the elevator and I just had to laugh. They are such a handful! I know Eleanor will be joining them when she is able to walk. Then I am really in for it!