And Eleanor Makes Three

Sweet Eleanor Jane

2012-02-16T17:36:00.002-05:00

When I was a little girl one of my favorite things to play with were dolls. I loved it so much in fact, it wasn't until the tender age of 12 that I outgrew this activity. One doll in particular was very special to me. Her name was Emily and she went everywhere with me. I dressed her up in real baby clothes and had real baby items to take care of her. I loved playing mommy. I loved pretending I had a little girl.

God has blessed me with two beautiful rough and tumble little boys. I never thought I would love having boys as much as I do. And then.....God gave me a 3rd gift in the form of a pretty, pink, petite little girl with beautiful skin and big blue eyes. As if my heart wasn't full of love enough, it grew even more that day as the doctor placed her in my arms. She is the sweetest little blessing and I love dressing her up in big bows and pretty dresses.

Today I did just that. I pulled out a pretty white dress and a big pink bow. I pulled out my camera and she did the rest. Many pictures follow of our mini photo shoot this afternoon. There are so many good ones I just couldn't chose. I find her perfect from any angle. My boys and I tell her daily just how pretty she is and how happy we are she is in our family. I think she knows that.

Our Valentine's Day

2012-02-15T14:08:00.001-05:00

We had a great Valentine's Day this year. The main thing I love about Valentine's Day, or what it means to me, is that it is simply about love. Not just romantic love, but the love you have for the ones in your life. I want to show my family that everyday, but it is fun to have a day solely dedicated to that concept. And Eric truly outdid himself this year. In the midst of my workday Monday I received these. I was so surprised!

On Saturday night Eric also made me a very special meal. He made lo mein, homemade egg rolls, and homemade crab ragoon. For dessert he made perfiderols. Delicious. On Tuesday I wanted to make the children a special treat as well. A few weeks ago we switched to all natural eating and only whole foods. I thought it would be tricky to find a dessert that contained no refined suga,r but luckily I found a recipe for whole wheat brownies. They were sweetened with all natural pure maple syrup. They were very rich and the boys loved them!

For dinner I made a slow cooker whole organic chicken.

And roasted asparagus. The meal was a hit!

Speaking of things I love- I love this little thing! She has been a bit fussy lately. Perhaps teething? But even through all that she is the sweetest baby. I love her pouty face she is making.

Oh the love.

I just love!

Happy Valentine's Day!

2012-02-14T10:10:00.000-05:00

Snowy Day

2012-02-14T10:04:00.003-05:00

Saturday was a bit snowy and a true winter day. We embraced it. And spent most of the day at home together.

Tired, Fussy, Happy

2012-02-08T21:53:00.000-05:00

I feel so frazzled lately that I am not sure where exactly I left off with the blog. The day to day chores and mothering is sometimes overwhelming. I feel like I am constantly chasing messes, cleaning, cooking, baking, doing laundry, et cetera et cetera. It is hard work, but good work. Anyways-it has left me overwhelmed at times and my brain is fried and my muscles are sore by the end of the day. I also have been bombarded at work with long shifts and a big caseload. Not a bad problem to have at all-but 12-13 hour shifts leave me exhausted as well. Blessed to only work outside the home two days a week though. Enough complaining. Here are thoughts/what has been going on in pictures.......

I know I am a bit biased, but this little girl is beautiful! I love her pouty lips, her cute button nose, and her deep blue eyes. She smiles with her entire face as well. I am in love.

Proof though that she is not always happy. Fussiness if thankfully very rare however.

Noni came to visit over the weekend and we all picked right where we left off.

And Gigi has been here the past two days. Sweet Eleanor fell asleep in her arms this afternoon.

Today we went to the library for storytime. Hampton loves it!

This picture is a bit blurry because I was in a hurry to snap a photo of both boys together. They have been playing with one another more and more lately. When Everett is trying to get Hampton to go somewhere with him he takes him by the hand and leads him. This has led to me witnessing my two boys walking around the house hand in hand. My heart can't take it! Sure they bicker about sharing and Everett will give the occasional shove or even hit Hamp, but they do have their sweet brother moments. I chose to store those memories away.

We have had a good few days. I am looking forward to a quiet weekend with absolutely no plans. Just the day to day-plus Dada!

Quiet Morning

2012-02-03T14:00:00.004-05:00

Today we had a quieter morning. A morning at home. We read books. We played with blocks. With played "store" with the play cash register. We ate grilled cheese sandwiches and black olives for lunch. Eleanor and Hampton are now napping, but my Everett is at my heels refusing to rest. I tell him he can be up, but I still have work to do. He seems okay with that just to be near me. One day I know I will miss this.

Crooked glasses and cheesy grin......

Such a beautiful boy-if I do say so myself!

She loves to stick her tongue out!

I am loving this pose! He loves the camera. I get it out and he automatically says "cheese!"

Eleanor with her Valentine's book

Everett reading to Eleanor

And Hampton reading on his own

Yesterday Morning I Went a Little Crazy

2012-02-02T13:27:00.003-05:00

My last post was about getting back on track with our daily routine and we are still getting there. So yesterday morning I thought I'd throw a monkey wrench into the whole deal and go crazy. Well- not really...but there were many moments during the morning that I did think that exact thought. I always wanted to be the type of mother that could handle taking our 3 young children anywhere by myself. I envisioned myself toting them with me to run any errand, the doctor's office, etc. Well maybe one day that will occur, but right now it can be a bit nuts. However yesterday I felt energetic and stir crazy in the house, so I decided to take them on an outing. We decided to go the story time at the library. It was a little hairy getting out the door, but once we did we got there and had a lot of fun! The boys really responded to the songs and stories and their favorite thing was dancing with scarves. After we left the library I decided to take them to get Everett's hair cut. It desperately needed to be cut and we just couldn't find the time. So off to Great Clips we went. When we got there it was a bit of a wait and Eleanor needed to nurse, leaving me powerless to control the boys. Thankfully they entertained themselves without getting into too much mischief. Everett had some apprehension about getting his hair cut and halfway through the haircut I took over the shears and cut his hair myself! I still had the pay the full price though-ha! When we left the salon I think I might have even heard a round of applause. I also think my husband was a bit impressed I took that on myself. I am gaining confidence though. Children are unpredictable and not every outing is a success. We have found we measure success by the number of meltdowns that occur/don't occur. It is always a risk, but many times there is a great payoff. I didn't bring my camera with me to document our morning, but I leave you with a picture of my gal-she rolls with the punches and is entertained by the daily chaos that is our life. I love her!

Getting on Track

2012-01-31T15:05:00.001-05:00

I don't even know where to start. I feel like it has been so long since I've posted anything. Our whole goal last week was to get back on track. Eric took some vacation days. I took Ev out of preschool for the week. We stayed home. It wasn't relaxing. It was a lot of work. But any given day is a lot of work around here with three children 3 and under. Everett is doing better. The amount of seizures has gone down (maybe 1 a day. Many days go by where we see none) and he is adjusting to his medication. His behavior isn't ideal, but definitely manageable. I think a lot of what we're seeing is being a 3 year old as well. I might add-a very strong-willed, passionate, emotional, active 3 year old!

So last week we painted.......

Everett loves an art project........

And we played with dry beans. The boys loved this!

And we watched movies.

And just spent time together......

We got back on track. And now I am ready to embrace this week with new eyes. I will pray for patience, guidance, and for joy. So far, so good.

A Whole Lot of Stuff

2012-01-21T20:55:00.001-05:00

We have been through a lot over the past almost 2 weeks. Everett has been through a lot. For the past 2 months Everett has been having "episodes" where he becomes very stiff, red in the face, and had difficulty responding. It had gotten worse, especially last week. The pediatrician wasn't sure what to make of it. A week ago Everett had about 6-7 episodes in one day and that night we decided to take him to the emergency room. The ER doc agreed it looked like a seizure and we saw the neurologist the next day. Ev had an EEG and no seizure activity was detected during those 30 minutes. That Saturday morning while I was at work I got a call from Eric that Ev had hurt himself and had a laceration above his eye. We aren't sure how since Eric discovered it when he went to get him out of bed that morning. Eric and Ev were in the ER all day. Ev needed sutures and kept seizing during the procedure. The on call neurologist put him on seizure meds that night. Since he has been on the medication his seizures have decreased in frequency and intensity. Unfortunately the med causes some yucky side effects including irritability. We put him on a vitamin supplement to curtail some of the symptoms and hopefully in a few weeks the side effects will subside. Everett had a MRI last Thursday with normal results-praise the Lord! It has been a rough road, a road we are still on, but hopefully we are on the upswing now. Everett still is having some short little seizures, but we are uping the dosage each week for the next couple of weeks. We are grateful for the Lord's provision of peace and strength-especially for Everett. I know it could be a lot worse, but I am praying it gets better soon.

Hampton serving as Everett's personal foot stool

She loves Everett

Have I mentioned I love dressing this doll baby up!?

Oh blue eyes- you melt my heart daily

And brown eyes- you know how to melt me as well

Sister is looking like she is going to hang on to those blue eyes as well

And she is holding on to a rattle too

Hampton playing on his own while Everett was at preschool

Everett's laceration. It is healing nicely.

Playing outside

The boys

Exploring in our backyard woods.

Things are starting to get back to normal-we aren't there yet. But we are getting there.

Today

2012-01-11T23:00:00.003-05:00

Today we.....

Played with friends. Hampton kept trying to eat the playdough! He kept smacking his lips!

Eleanor loves to watch the big kids. I just set her up and she takes it all in.

Everett is now constantly drinking from my glass. No more sippy cups for him.

Be still my heart, blue eyes.

And we laced together necklaces in the afternoon. And yes we are still wearing Christmas pajamas around here.

And we had honey biscuits for snack.

It rained all day today. All day!

But we made our own fun inside.

Once again I am exhausted.....but we had a good day.

Yesterday

2012-01-11T22:45:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was a whole lot of nothing....but I am convinced all this "nothing" for these little people in my life really adds up to a whole lot of something-now and for their future.

Eleanor tried rice cereal for the first time and proved she is a girl with her dramatic reaction. She gagged and gave me a funny look.

Everett went to preschool. It was show and tell day and he brought Buzz Lightyear.

While Everett was at preschool Hampton was hard at work playing. Eleanor takes a long morning nap, so this is quality time with him. This boy plays like it is his job. He loves to play! His favorites are cars.

Grover decided to take a driving tour of the farm. And Buzz Lightyear happened to be there too. We have fun.

Everett refused another nap. I am still working through this issue. I have come to terms with him not sleeping. I have not come to terms with myself not getting a break in the day. Thus, I have instituted "room time." He can read, play with a few toys....but he must stay in his room. It is still a battle, but we are only two days in. I am hopeful. And the playing commenced in the afternoon......

Why hi there baby...........

I'll give you a kiss!

Maggie is a very predictable dog. She sleeps in the morning and observes in the afternoon.

More play.....

And a brother hug enforced by mommy.

Eleanor and I decided to do a photoshoot......

And we ended the day freshly bathed, in jammies, in mommy and daddy's bed- with Hampton as Everett's personal foot rest.

And I wanted to end with a sibling kiss! Melt my heart.

The day can be long. And my patience can be worn thin. I worry myself over the children. Are they healthy? Are they happy? This list can go on and on. But even though it can take a toll on me physically, mentally, and emotionally-it is good work.

Family Day

2012-01-07T20:57:00.000-05:00

Today was fun. We started off the day with orange rolls. The day has to be good if it starts off with orange rolls. And it was. Everett and I decided to venture out just the two of us to Mountain Play Lodge. This is just down the road from us and is a huge indoor playground full of inflatables, things to climb on, a castle, and a cute little play town. He loved it! He was so brave and went on all the inflatables.

Afterwards we picked up Chick Fil A for lunch. After lunch it was nap time. Or.....it was supposed to be nap time. We are dealing with some major issues with Everett refusing to nap. He is a very strong-willed little boy who is willing to go to great lengths to let us know he WILL NOT take a nap. Finally after an hour and a half battle he finally gave in and passed out. We are working on a new nap plan.

After naps we head back to Mountain Play Lodge to introduce Hampton to the fun. He loved it too! He never stop babbling the whole time. He trotted around like he owned the place. I think it officially wore the boys out.

When we got home we had supper and then did baths. The boys are now soundly asleep in their room. I look forward to visiting the play lodge during the cold winter months (which we haven't quite experienced yet).

I love how the boys' age is starting to feel closer and closer. They are starting to "play" with one another and it is fun. Funny to think that in a year or so we will have 3 littles running around.

Pajama Play Date

2012-01-07T13:50:00.000-05:00

Yesterday morning it was cold so we decided to call our friends up for a pajama play date. These winter months worry me because we can easily get stir crazy staying at home all the time. However with friends it definitely passes the time and makes it more bearable! We were cozy in our jammies and the time was well spent!

Evening at the Aboretum

2012-01-07T13:39:00.000-05:00

Eleanor At Four Months

2012-01-04T13:43:00.000-05:00

Our sweet Eleanor Jane is 4 months! There are many things I want to remember about our gal at this age:

-She weighs 13 pounds and is in the 25th percentile for weight. She is much smaller than the boys were. The boys were always in the 75th percentile for weight.

-She is 27/28 inches long and in the 75th percentile for height.

-She is in the 75th percentile for head circumference.

-Eleanor is developing wonderfully. She is a little behind on gross motor skills. We need to work more on some tummy time for head control. She is rolling over now. We also just brought out the exersaucer which she loves.

-Eleanor sleeps about 11-12 hours a night. She takes one2 hour nap in the morning and one two hour nap in the afternoon. She wins the award for the best sleeper!

-Eleanor eats every 3 hours still and we have not started solids yet.

-What I want to remember most is how sweet Eleanor is. She is always smiling. She is the most content and happy baby I have ever met. In fact, the only time she fusses is when she is ready to eat or is ready to nap. The pediatrician said perhaps because she is so well rested! We love our sweet girl.

Four Months

2011-12-29T20:38:00.000-05:00

I thought it would be fun to compare all 3 babies at 4 months. I think Everett and Eleanor really favor one another and Hampy has a look all his own.

Everett

Hampton

Eleanor

The Past Few Days

2011-12-29T18:11:00.000-05:00

The past few days have been nice. We are settling down from all the Christmas festivities and have enjoyed our days spent at home.

This boy's hair is wild. By this age Everett had at least 2 haircuts, however we have not cut Hampton's hair yet. I am sure the day is coming soon, but for now it is just a crazy mess.

The boys have also enjoyed playing with their new toys from Christmas. The fire truck in the background is at least fought over twice a day.

Everett in the box Everett in the box oh so still.....won't you come out!?!

Yes I will!

Yesterday while Eleanor was having some tummy time Hampton ran over and offered her the Chick Fil A cow. I guess he thought she was lonely.

Lunching with friends.

Mmmmm.....peanut butter and jelly muffins (with carrot puree in the recipe...you know to make it nutritious!)

And yesterday I simmered white chicken chili all day long in my new, much larger Crockpot. So yummy!

Yesterday afternoon Everett decided not to nap which left more playtime, just the two of us. We learned about the concepts of "same" and "different" via a game of Memory. His attention span is still pretty short, so it didn't last long but we'll keep trying.

And this morning was all about castle building. More specifically we constructed a castle for Buzz Lightyear. Unfortunately Hurricane Hampton came and destroyed. Poor castle. It lasted a good 2 minutes.

I wasn't feeling all that great today so we declared it a jammie day. An all day jammie day.

We also ate lunch while watching Toy Story. The boys are very much into Toy Story right now.

And it was definitely a fireside play kind of day.

Everett skipped nap again today and was definitely ready to snuggle Eleanor when she awoke from her nap this afternoon.

I am a bit obsessed with baby feet.

I love their relationship. She lights up when he talks to her and he kisses her often. Very sweet.

Merry Christmas

2011-12-26T21:35:00.000-05:00

We had a wonderful Christmas yesterday! It is definitely getting to be more fun now that Everett (and Hampton) are getting older.

Everett's gift to me was a necklace he had picked out from Target. I love it!

And Everett picked out a Slinky for Eric. It was destroyed before the morning was over.

The boys loving on Eleanor.

Eleanor's first Christmas!

She got a new doll.

I think one of Everett's favorite things was his stocking.

For lunch we had appetizer type food. Baby quiche, deli spirals, olives, anti pasta platter, and pesto pasta. It was delicious.

In the afternoon we went outside for some fresh air. It was chilly so we had to bundle up.

During naps Eric and I watched The Help. Later in the evening we celebrated with a Happy Birthday Jesus cake.

Helping Everett blow out the candles.

Hampton loved it! Can you tell!?!

Merry Christmas!

Christmas Eve

2011-12-24T22:07:00.017-05:00

We have had a fun Christmas Eve day. This morning we went to the mall so the boys could ride the Christmas train!
Eleanor slept the whole time.

Everett loved the train. I lost count how many times he rode it. Hampton liked it the first ride, however he kept sliding off the seat and was soon over it.

Eleanor has been so sleepy today! I think she is going through a growth spurt.

I love this sweet face.

After the train we went to Chick Fil A for lunch and then went home for naps. We all napped we were so tired from the morning. After nap we enjoyed just lounging at home watching Christmas programs.

For dinner we had a Christmas Eve pizza party! We ate fireside by the glow of the Christmas tree.

Then things got really silly. Maybe it was the chocolate milk, but the boys danced around and at some point lost there jammies!

At bedtime we read about Christ's birth and talked about the reason for Christmas.

Eric and I then filled the babes stockings with goodies. I am so excited to celebrate tomorrow!

Merry Christmas!

Week of Christmas Cheer

2011-12-23T21:51:00.029-05:00

We have had a fun week of Christmas happenings. I didn't pay mind to how I was uploading my pictures for this post so I will work backwards......

Today we (my mom, aunt Jenny, and Everett) went to the Grove Park Inn to see the Gingerbread houses.
The GPI delivered for my mom and aunt as well. Full of Christmas goodness and gorgeous decor.

You just can't help but get into the Christmas spirit when you're here.

Everett had a handful of meltdowns during our visit this morning. Some minor. Some major. We are working on it. Three is a tough age.

But the behavior issues didn't stop us from enjoying ourselves.

Last night we opened our gifts from Aunt Jenny and my mom. The boys are loving the whole opening presents thing. It is really fun to watch.

This fire truck was Hampton's gift from Noni and is very popular.

And Eleanor got this sweet handmade pillow from my sister Mary. Perfect for her nursery.

I heart this sweet face!

And then earlier this week Gigi came for a visit to do Christmas.

The boys had so much fun. We've had a great week with visiting family. The boys are already enjoying their new toys and now know what those wrapped boxes under the Christmas tree are. I am wondering if they are going to tear into the remainders when our backs are turned! We are looking forward to this weekend with just the five of us making precious memories (with I am sure a meltdown here and there sprinkled in between!) but fun none the less.

Vroom

2011-12-21T23:09:00.005-05:00

Candy Cane

2011-12-21T21:24:00.002-05:00

Oh So Sweet!

This is Love

2011-12-20T23:01:00.004-05:00

This is Love.

Sibling Love.

She is holding both of her brother's hands

These two were meant to be together

I think they really favor one another

I love this

Rare shot of all 3 babies

Weekend Gotta Getaway

2011-12-20T13:56:00.001-05:00

It was Thursday evening- I had taken Everett to an unexpected trip to the doctor. Eleanor was with us as well. We had waited in the waiting room for over an hour. We were at the office for almost two hours! I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror and was shocked. I looked tired. No. I looked exhausted. I realized I had job burn out. Not my job as a speech pathologist, but my job as a mother. I needed renewal. Refreshment. Just to get away for a quick minute. So, on the way home.....while Everett was in the backseat whining about something and Eleanor was screaming.....I called my mom and asked if she could watch the babies for Friday night and the following day. My sister and her boyfriend Jed were visiting and all three agreed to come help us out. I then called the Grove Park Inn and made a reservation. I was so excited, and so was Eric.

Our room.

Friday evening we went to the Inn's Sunset Terrace. We had gone before when we were there for our honeymoon. It was too cold to eat out on the terrace, but it didn't matter. The atmosphere was lovely. The food was fantastic. And the company? Well let's just say we are really in to each other. It was perfect.

After dinner we meandered around the inn enjoying all of the beautiful Christmas decorations.

I just loved all the themed Christmas trees.

And the Grove Park Inn is host to the National Gingerbread Competition. This was one of my favorites.

The next morning we enjoyed room service for breakfast.....in our white fluffy GPI robes! We went back and forth about going to the spa, however it was a gorgeous day and we just had to get out and enjoy it. Complete freedom had caused us to not want to commit to just one thing. So we went Christmas shopping and ate lunch at a cafe with discussion of what this next year will bring. One thing is for sure-we agreed this must be an annual getaway. We came back refreshed and renewed, and if possible...that much closer. SO thankful for my family that made the weekend possible!

Preschool Party

2011-12-18T22:26:00.001-05:00

Last Thursday Everett had his preschool program/party. The program was in the sanctuary of the church and the moment he saw me, it was all over. He ran to the pew where I was sitting and refused to go on stage with his classmates. I was disappointed, but that is just his personality. He did however have a great time at his party. Hampton enjoyed it as well. I don't think we are going to have a problem with Hampton not wanting to perform when he is in preschool next year.

Polar Express Pajama Party and Other Holiday Fun

2011-12-13T14:41:00.001-05:00

My mom came to visit this past weekend and we had a lot of fun. On Friday morning I took Everett and Hampton to the nursing home (skilled nursing facility to be more accurate) where I work. We passed out some crafts Everett had done in preschool this year to all the "grandmas and grandpas." Everett loved it! He was so polite and social. He walked around like he owned the place greeting people and wishing everyone a Merry Christmas. It was great.

That evening after we toured the light show at Lake Julian we went to Barnes and Noble for a Polar Express pajama party! The kids all wore their jammies and one of the workers read The Polar Express. They then did a craft and had hot chocolate and cookies.

The boys soon just ended up at the train set however.

Hampton sat for about a minute of the story and then planted himself right in front of the woman reading the story, blocking every one's view. Such a little rascal.

Saturday we took the boys to see Santa at the mall. Everett had a meltdown, but we managed to get him in the picture. Hampton looked dumbfounded and sweet Eleanor just was all smiles. I will have to try to scan the picture so I can share. Meltdowns occur now and then, however we have to keep making holiday memories!

You'll Shoot Your Eye Out!

2011-12-10T21:08:00.001-05:00

I put Hampy in this hat tonight and suddenly he became Ralphie from a Christmas story. Blue eyes. Blonde hair. The glasses. Do you see it!?!

Thoughts on Boys

2011-12-07T22:58:00.001-05:00

I never thought I would have boys. When I was younger I pictured having 2 little girls. So when I found out I was having Everett I was thrilled, but uncertain. I wasn't sure what to do with a boy. Yet, 2 boys later I must say it is so much fun! I have learned many things about boys in the past 3 years. Boys are loud. Boys are rough. Boys can have wild tempers. Boys like to destroy. Boys like to figure out how things work. Well....at least I can say these things about my boys.

One thing is for absolutely certain.....these boys LOVE their sister. For as rough as they are with each other, they are so gentle with her. Today Everett told me it was his job to protect Eleanor. He used the word "protect." We have never said this to him (yet) so I am not sure where he got it from, but it just melted my heart. He has said for awhile now that Eleanor is his baby, but now he is starting to say she is our baby.

I love seeing the dynamics of the relationships between Ev and Hamp. The boys play hard, but they love as well. It is the little things like Everett sharing unexpectedly, or Hampton following Ev around like he is just the best thing ever.

Just a Few More

2011-12-01T15:08:00.001-05:00

Cutie, Spectacles, and Kindness

2011-12-01T14:07:00.001-05:00

Fun things are happening around here:

What she wore Thursday

Dress: Janie and Jack

Tights: Le Top

Headband: Handmade my Mama

Too Cute

Rock It

Hampton as an astigmatism. And a cataract. And a hemangioma. So we found out last week he needs glasses. Little did we know, his vision is blurry. However, whatever God gives you.....rock it. So here he is rocking his spectacles.

He got them this morning. He immediately started pointing to things that were far away. He also kept checking out the fabric on the carpet. It was like a whole new world. Unfortunately they have caused him to be a bit dizzy and he went back to crawling around this morning. I am sure he will get used to them.

Playing with my Brother

So Everett has had some issues sharing and being kind to Hampton lately. I decided to use a social story to reach him. Social stories are a great therapeutic and teaching tool that I used a lot when I was working in pediatrics. Here is how Everett's story goes:

Sometimes I want to play with my brother Hampton.

We play with cars, trains, blocks, and watch movies.

I may also tell my brother Hampton what I want to play.

But if I hit my brother Hampton he will get hurt. He will not want to play with my anymore. He will be sad.

If I push my brother Hampton he may cry. If I don't share toys he will be sad.

If I say "no no Hampton!" he will be sad.

I do not want to make my brother Hampton sad. I do not want to make him cry.

I will try to be kind and nice to my brother Hampton.

Being kind to my brother makes mommy and daddy happy.

Being nice to my brother makes God happy.

I will be nice to my brother Hampton and share because he is my friend.

I am a friend to my brother Hampton.

The End

One More Thanksgiving Photo

2011-11-30T21:35:00.001-05:00

My mom sent me this photo tonight she had taken with her iPhone while she was visiting last week. Oh my goodness! This girl is so sweet. I am completely in love.

Tis the Season

2011-11-30T20:46:00.001-05:00

I love this time of the year. I am trying my best to soak it all up and create memories.

Our sneaky little elf is back. Everett has decided to name him Bobby.

A new advent calendar. My mom gifted us with this. So cute and a great way to teach the children about Christ's birth.

A new Christmas tree for our playroom-taken with the fireworks setting on our camera. We have our "formal" tree upstairs in the living room and this is our "fun" tree. I love the colored lights and the hodge podge of ornaments it is decorated with. The children love it too and have been surprisingly good about not touching.

I am working on filling our calendar with one fun Christmas activity each week this month. More to come!

Silly and Sassy

2011-11-29T14:46:00.001-05:00

This is sassy.

This is silly.

And I have a feeling that when they get together one day they are going to be trouble!

I really enjoyed my time with these two this morning while Everett was at preschool. Of course it was a joyful reunion upon Ev's return.

Giving Thanks

2011-11-29T14:13:00.001-05:00

Our tree is full. And so are our hearts. We had a great Thanksgiving. We traveled down to Athens, Georgia to spend it with Eric's family.

Before that however Eric and I were able to sneak away for a bit to visit the Biltmore Estate. It was decorated for Christmas and so pretty. I thank my mom for taking care of the babies so we could have a day date.

The babies did great on the car ride down to Athens. I was so proud of them and happy we made it there in peace.

Hampton and Everett ate and ate.

Everett and I made these cute name plates for the children.

The best we could get with Gigi and all the boys.

Playing with cousins.

And now we are ready for Christmas!

Family Day with the Burkes

2011-11-26T14:21:00.001-05:00

Last Saturday our friends the Burke family came to visit us. Between our 2 families, there were 6 children 3 and under. It was wild. What is funny is that earlier in our lives (back in our Louisville days), when we first became friends, there was no children between us. Now there are 6! We always have so much fun when we get together. We enjoyed playing, decorating Christmas cookies, watching movies, visiting the arboretum, eating white chicken chili, making smores in the fireplace, and just chatting and catching up.

A very sprinkled cookie.

Hampton at the arboretum.

The boys loved playing in the leaves.

Wyatt and Everett just being boys!

All the boys: Silas, Wyatt, Everett, and Hampton.

We look forward to seeing the Burkes again!

Breaking the Rules

2011-11-22T11:52:00.001-05:00

Eric and I have been trying to be more intentional about spending one-on-one time with the children. So last Friday evening I had to pick up a few groceries at Wal-Mart and I took Everett along. It was already 6:30pm at this point, but I figured we could be back by bedtime. Well afterward Everett said he wanted to go to Target. He much prefers Target over Wal-Mart (so do I). It was already 7pm at this point. Bedtime is at 7:30, but we were having some special time together, so I went with it. There was a chill in the air and it was already dark. We had so much fun at Target. I let him direct where we went. We looked at the toys, the big televisions, browsed the shoes (I even found a new pair!). We giggled. Cookie from Starbucks? Sure!

Try on sunglasses? Sure!

I am embarrassed to say, we may even had made up a song about stinky poo. Just trying to cater to him being a boy. I love these moments of spontaneity with the children. Staying up past bedtime to watch a movie. Having ice-cream for dinner. Breaking the rules. It happens every now and then and I love the response it creates as if to say, "Are you serious!?! This is great!"

When Daddy Comes Home

2011-11-20T21:05:00.001-05:00

This past week Eric has been away on a business trip. We miss him so much when he is gone! It is always a joyful reunion upon his return. In fact, I got little miss all dressed up for the occasion. Her shirt said, "I love Daddy." The big boys were pretty happy to see him too.

The Past Few Days in Pictures

2011-11-15T14:00:00.001-05:00

We've had a busy few days. Here is a hodge podge of happenings......

Everett has been busy with Thanksgiving festivities at preschool. He came home in this Indian hat today. His teacher names each of the children with an Indian name. Everett's is "Little Turtle." I'm thinking it has something to do with him hiding in his shell at times.

There is a new lady of the house and her name is Eleanor. The boys just love this sweet girl. They have different ways of showing their love though. Hampton is a little bit of a bull. He has a tendency to hit her and squeeze her a bit too tight. It's all out of love though.

She actually flinches a bit when he gets near. They'll be chums soon enough though.

Everett is definitely more gentle. He gives her sweet kisses. She smiles and coos at him. No matter though,the big boys love Eleanor and she is becoming more and more aware of them.

Walking with the three. I am trying to lose this baby weight so when I go walking with all 3 children, this is how we have to do it. I certainly get a workout!

Looking forward to having friends over this weekend and of course, Thanksgiving next week. I love the holidays!

Homework, Weekend, and Teeth

2011-11-08T14:27:00.000-05:00

We had a very fun-filled busy weekend. Nonny came to visit. But first off though......

On Thursday at preschool Everett was given his very first homework assignment. He had to decorate the feather for the classroom turkey. The instructions were he was to do it all by himself with very little guidance. So I gave him a few craft items and this is what he came up with.

Last weekend my mom brought her two dachshunds with her. Suprisingly Maggie got along with both of them, which was great. So in honor of my mom's dachshund I put Eleanor in this cute dress.

Last weekend was a breath of fresh air for our marriage. Eric and I have practically had no time alone since Eleanor has been born, and even before that. So Friday night we had the opportunity to attend an event at our church. It was called Secret Church and was on marriage and family. It was a simulcast with David Platt as the speaker. It was amazing. And long. Seven hours to be exact and worth every minute. On Saturday we got to sleep in a bit and then went to Panera Bread for breakfast and then went shopping. Eleanor came with us, but it is still so much easier with one child! When we got home my mom and I went to the aboretum to hike one of the trails. It was such a gorgeous day and the sky was so blue!

We spent a lot of time doing this......looking at a map!

Everett has fun when Nonny comes to visit. Especially when she gifts him with gingerbread cookies in the shape of a turkey!

Saturday evening Eric and I attended our friends annual Autumn party. It was fun to get out again on our own.

And none weekend related, but worth noting....I took Everett to the dentist today for his 6-month check-up. I actually took all three children.....by myself.....to the dentist.....and it wasn't a disaster. I am happy to report that Everett has no cavities and in the words of Dr. Jackson has "handsome teeth."

I am looking forward to a bit of "down time" with the children this week full of stay-at-home activites, crafts, and baking.

Thankful

2011-11-03T16:44:00.002-04:00

For the month of November, we started a thankful tree. Every day this month I will ask Everett what he is thankful for and I'll had a "leaf" with the his response on the tree. So far this is what we have:

1. School

2. Mama

3. Daddy

And while Everett was in preschool this morning, Hampton and I made this......Autumn bark! It is so good. It is white chocolate mixed with mini pretzels, dried cranberries, and candy corn.

The boys loved them! I can't stay away from it either.

Last night I had so much fun making some seasonal hair bows for Eleanor. She looked so cute in this pumpkin one today.

But she looks cute in anything if I do say so myself!

Aboretum in Autumn

2011-11-03T14:15:00.001-04:00

The other day the air was cool and the skies were clear-so we decided to take a late afternoon hike at our favorite spot, the arboretum. Well we were looking for a picturesque spot for a few good pictures. Well the arboretum delivered, or Fall delivered.....either way it was gorgeous. Happy November!

Trick or Treating with Friends and Other Fall Things

2011-11-01T20:28:00.003-04:00

We had a very fun weekend. I would like to say that Saturday was relaxing, but as Eric would agree-we are far from ever having a relaxing day again. But that is okay. It was relaxing for us. We had plans, but they fell through. However we had great family time.

Eleanor is enjoying the playmate. It just hit me the other day to take it out of our storage room and give it a try. She is happy.

Saturday while the boys napped I went to the bakery and came home with these festive cupcakes.

They were enjoyed by all.

And the boys took a walk in the cool weather. The downward slope of our neighborhood's road helped Everett with his tricycle riding abilities.

And Monday I decided spur of the moment to take Everett trick or treating. I wanted him to experience it and make a memory. And that we did. I called up our friends Sally Ann and Abigail to join us. So the now neurosurgeon (he decided to not wear his lab coat, so this is what he became) and the ladybug hit one of our local neighborhoods to gather the goods.

They did such a great job! There were plenty of "trick or treat" "thank yous" and "Happy Halloweens" and by the end they went up to a house and did it all by themselves-while the mamas stood on the curb.

There are some scary costumes out there and the littles were a bit phased. The costume that stuck out was a boy with a huge scary pumpkin head. In Abigail's words, "He not good." We got away from him and quick.

Eric, Hampton, and Eleanor stayed at home to man the fort and hand out candy. When I got home Eric reported that we had run out. Our neighborhood got hit hard this year and we weren't prepared. We had to be those neighbors who had to turn out their porch lights. He also reported that Hampton had a hard time saying goodbye to the children, as he had wanted to go with them. I did run him across the street to our neighbors to "trick or treat." How cute is this gorilla? What is even cuter is when he says "tweet!" for "treat."

Eric got it! A picture of the boys together in their costumes. Not perfect. But together however.

Happy Halloween and once again......Happy Autumn!

Fall Preschool Party

2011-11-01T15:10:00.000-04:00

Everett had so much fun at his preschool party last week. I am happy to say he didn't disassemble his costume and looked pretty darn cute! I was happy that Hampton, Eleanor, and I were able to attend as well. The kids did a little march around the gym in their costumes, had a fun snack, and also sang some songs with their music teacher. Everett is so well behaved and I got the report he is a good listener.

Can you spot Hampton? This boy loves to be wherever people are. He kept waddling up to the music teacher while they were singing to try and strum her guitar. I had a hard time keeping him contained. He loves other children and is so social. I know he'll love preschool one day as well. In fact, when I was packing up Eleanor and Everett, I had turned my back for one second and Hampton had disappeared! I ran out of the classroom and found him walking outside with another class. That crazy boy!

And just for good measure, a sweet picture of our sweet girl. I love dressing her up.

Today's Happenings

2011-10-26T20:35:00.000-04:00

It is the end of the day and I am exhausted, so this post may be all over the place. We had a good day. No where to go until late this afternoon. A great day enjoying each other at home.

I didn't think Everett's costume last year would fit Hampton, but surprisingly it did. I guess he will be a gorilla for Halloween this year.

Everett is going to be a doctor. I asked Eric to put his costume on him tonight in prep for his party at preschool tomorrow. He came in and said, "I need 60ccs of cuteness stat!"

He loves his costume and Hampton kept following him all around the house tonight.

This afternoon I took Everett and Eleanor to the doctor. Everett has been stuttering lately and even though I am a speech pathologist I wanted to get his thoughts. After talking it out, we are just going to give it time. Eleanor was there for her 2 month appointment.
The doctor was running behind this afternoon and we got a little bored waiting. We had read every book, so we decided to entertain ourselves by making funny faces in the mirror. Everett said, "there are two Everetts!"

Eleanor loved looking at herself in the mirror as well.

After an hour, this is Everett "I am bored" face.

Still waiting......

Sister is doing great! She weighs 10 pounds 6 ounces and is in the 50th percentile for weight, 75th percentile for height, and the 50th percentile for her head circumference.

I love her dress! She had to get 3 shots today. Overall she is doing great. Our doctor was pretty impressed she can sleep 8-9 hour stretches at night. The Lord knows we need that!

So I made some Rice Krispie treats for a fun snack this afternoon. Everett was so excited to get a "masmellow" treat.

And this guy was loving them as well.

I don't know why I always crave these in the Fall.

We are loving this book. Everett requests it everyday.

And today for our craft we made these pumpkins. It was the first time I allowed Everett to handle the glue and he did really well.

All day long Everett talked about how he is excited for his preschool party tomorrow, so I can't wait to hear how it went. He told me there was going to be games, and treats, and he gets to wear his costume. I have a feeling Christmas this year is going to be very fun!

Embracing Fall

2011-10-25T10:36:00.000-04:00

My mom and Aunt Jenny came to visit last weekend. We were so busy I completely forgot to take any pictures! Anyways, we have really been enjoying this season. The temperatures are cool in the morning, warm in the afternoon, and then it returns chilly in the evenings. Thankfully we finally bought a leaf blower to clear out all the leaves in our yard and driveway. However, it is covered again within a day or two.

Sister has been doing great. She now is 9 weeks. She has her 2 month appointment tomorrow. For the past couple of weeks she has been sleeping 7-8 hour stretches at night which has been great. She is a very scheduled girl. I love dressing her in cute dresses with tights and of course big bows!

This boy has been doing great with his walking. He walks everywhere and is now even trying to run.

While my mom and aunt were here we did a project. My aunt had gotten the idea off of Pinterest. We framed different pieces of fabric with embroidery hoops. I love how it turned out and there was an empty spot in our playroom that needed a little something.

Last time my mom was here we did this project. This sits on our mantel and I love it!

My mom also brought an old rocking chair I remember having as a child. It needed a little updating so Eric and I painted it red and added our W. The boys love rocking in it.

And Everett did a few projects of his own, this being one of them. When the sun shines through it, it makes a Jack-O-Lantern shadow on the floor.

This was the only recent picture I could get of Everett. He is still not a fan of the camera. He just got a haircut and it is so cute. I got it cut shorter in the front and now we can finally see more of his cute face. His Halloween/Fall party is on Thursday at preschool and he is going to be a doctor.

We are definitely embracing this season not only with fun outdoors in the cool temperatures and crafting, but with our food selection as well. I am trying to make the most out of pumpkin. I have made pumpkin pancakes, pumpkin ravioli, and tonight I am making pumpkin soup. Can't Autumn last all year long?

Blessed

2011-10-17T21:20:00.002-04:00

Seriously.....is there anything sweeter than a new baby?
I bathed her this evening and she looked up at me and smiled. A genuine, I love you kind of smile. I dressed her in soft white pajamas and brushed her hair. She nursed. And then I rocked her breathing in that new baby aroma, all the while thinking......."I can't believe I get to be your mama."

Park Adventures

2011-10-16T20:41:00.013-04:00

So we went to the park the other day. The babies all had taken great naps and needed to get out and burn some energy before supper.

Sister girl napped the entire time. I am definitely enjoying the "I'll happily nap anywhere stage" right now. It was a bit chilly so we had to get bundled.
This was our first trip to the playground since Hampton has begun walking. He enjoyed the experience so much more and so did I. There is not much to do when you can only crawl in mulch and dirt.

It was a gorgeous afternoon. I'll never get over the beauty of the changing leaves. The clear skies was just a bonus.

Nothing is better than letting this boy just go free. He never stops moving. He never stops running. He loves it.

And our friends joined us there as well.

Sally Ann and her girls. I like how my boys managed to get into the picture as well.

This little boy showed no fear of the slide. I had turned my head for one second and then heard "wee!" Down the slide he went and had a blast. He went again and again.

And he battled it out with this tunnel. He was too tall to walk through it and refused to crawl. Ironic how now he refuses to crawl. The battle between Hampton and the tunnel lasted a good 10 minutes.

We are in that good transitional season where it is not too hot and not too chilly to play outside. I plan on taking full advantage before winter arrives. Fall is definitely my favorite time of the year!

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Hands Full

2011-10-14T14:07:00.003-04:00

I don't think a day goes by when I am out with my children in public when someone doesn't comment, "You have your hands full." Today when a passerby made this comment to me I finally thought of a witty response-"My hands are full, but so is my heart." Cheesy? Perhaps. True? Absolutely.

It may seem to the random stranger observing me corral my young children in the grocery store, or Target, or getting them all into Ev's preschool that I am a bit crazy. Like today where I had Eleanor strapped to my chest in the Baby Bjourn so that my hands would be free to hold on to Everett and Hampton. Meanwhile I am sweating to death in the 50 degree temperature from the amount of physical energy it all takes. However it is worth it. When I was pregnant with Eleanor I thought we would never get out of the house. I thought it would be way too hard and totally not worth it. While I do try to schedule time at home for play, we certainly get out way more than I ever thought at this stage. Truth is, the boys have fun and even though it does take a lot of organization, planning, endurance, and patience, I am glad I have gained confidence in participating in activities outside our home.
So now with a diaper bag full of diapers, wipes, pacifiers, burp clothes, 3 separate changes of clothing, sippy cups, and snacks-here I go to attack the park with my 3 littles!

Mornings with the Two Littles

2011-10-13T13:28:00.009-04:00

Since Everett goes to preschool on Tuesday and Thursday mornings, it has given me the opportunity to spend time with little brother and little sister. We have gotten in the habit of hitting up Starbucks after we drop Ev off. We also have been going to a playgroup on Tuesday mornings at Sally Anns.

Sweet Eleanor. She usually naps during the playgroup. I am going to enjoy this time right now when she is little and can nap anywhere.

Hampton playing with the other babies.

See? She can nap anywhere!

Eleanor wore her very first pair of shoes on Tuesday.

And today she wore Mary Jane socks. It is so fun dressing up a little girl!

My biggest challenge on preschool days is getting all 3 babes fed, dressed, and out the door by 9. Today was one of those mornings. All 3 babies were crying at some point and I just about joined them. Another big challenge is being able to give all 3 children the kind of attention they need. Sometimes it is just not possible, like when I am nursing. However, I try to make up for it at another time of the day. It is exhausting at time.

After preschool today we went to Target. We were in need of diapers, and of course Starbucks! Eleanor was awake the whole time and just looked around, so content. Hampton loved walking around the store. Yes walking! He now walks 98% of the time and is getting really good at it. I am so proud of him.

And today was teddy bear day at school. Everett also had his class picture made today. He had a hard start of the day, but said he had fun at school. Even those days can be hard, I love them!

Happy Fall Days

2011-10-08T21:59:00.001-04:00

Today we had another fun family day. We spent the morning at home playing. The boys have mild colds, but are still able to be rough and tumble! After long naps, we went to the pumpkin patch to pick out our pumpkin. I can't wait to carve it! We then went to the park/playground. The boys had so much fun and the air was cool this evening, which was great because I had made meatball soup for supper. Perfect. I just love Autumn. It is definitely my favorite time of year.

Maggie loves this time of year as well!

Hampton at the pumpkin patch

Everett had fun picking out a pumpkin. It was neat because the patch we went to, all the proceeds went to missions.

Everett and Eleanor lounging this morning.

Walking for Candy

2011-10-06T14:25:00.004-04:00

Last week I shared how Hampton started walking. I was so excited! However, my excitement has kind of been squashed as he now refuses to walk anywhere! What is even more frustrating than a toddler who can't toddle, is one who you know can and doesn't. In fact, yesterday when trying to get him to walk to me he said "no walk!" So, today I found a different kind of motivator. Not mommy. No. Candy. I know it sounds bad. But I am getting desperate.

I placed M&Ms strategically around the house and had him walk to get them.
So it worked.

He was so happy and we made it into a game.

Whatever it takes to get my chubby baby to walk!

Fall Cuties

2011-10-05T13:29:00.007-04:00

Just when I thought...... they couldn't get any cuter......

they go and surprise me!

Again!

Of course I am biased.....

But seriously!?!

Aren't they sweet!?!

Once again......Happy Autumn!

Rhythm and Routine

2011-10-05T13:04:00.004-04:00

Over the past two weeks we have implemented a pretty strict schedule with Eleanor and it has been great! It has taken some time, patience, and discipline to stick with it, but the pay off has been totally worth it. So here is how it goes:
No matter when she ate prior, I always give Eleanor a 9:00am feeding. She then is up for about 30-40 minutes and then goes down for a nap.
Her next feeding is at noon. She eats and then is down again at 1:00 (this is great because this is when the boys are napping).
Next feeding is at 3:00pm. This can be a more fussy time of the day. She has had gas issues on and off, but eventually goes down for another nap.
Her supper feeding is at 6:00pm. After this feeding we have been spending time together as a family, either taking a walk or playing.
At around 8:30 Eleanor has her bath. Even if we have to wake her up, she has a bath! This is part of her night time routine.
After bath I nurse her at 9:00 and then we put her down for the night.
Fortunately, the principles we institute throughout the day has caused Eleanor to only get up once during the night (with the exception here or there). Her middle of the night feeding is usually about 3. She then is up again for a feeding about 6am.

I never knew that by 4 weeks of age (Eleanor is 6 weeks now) that we could schedule an infant! It took Everett and Hampton way longer to get scheduled. We feel more well rested and Eleanor is definitely more predictable.

Go Baby Go!

2011-10-01T19:16:00.002-04:00

It started Wednesday afternoon. Hampton was downstairs in the playroom and I suddenly noticed he was standing alone unassisted. Gail and I then encouraged him to take a few steps and he did! By the end of the night he was doing laps around the house! We are so proud of him. He is still mastering this skill, but keeps growing in his confidence and getting better each day. We are so excited.

One Big Post

2011-10-01T18:42:00.018-04:00

Which I now will break down into smaller posts......

This girl. I don't know what to say. I just love her. She is the sweetest baby and already is so adored by her big brothers-especially Everett. Today he said she was his best friend. My heart just may explode.
Apples and Gigi. Eric's mom (aka Gigi) was here this past week to help me out since Eric was out of town on business. Oh what a help she was. We had fun. We did things like-go to Barnes and Noble. Eat out at Chick Fil A. Go to story time at the library. And Hampton happened to achieve a huge milestone this week-walking! But more about that later. She also provided cute little apples for the boys to eat.

Hampton mastering eating an apple like a "big boy."

And Everett ate it to the core!

Story Time. Story time brings out the differences in my boys personalities. Everett is safe and secure in the back-pictured here with Gigi.

Whereas my Hampton is the happiest in the front. He likes to be amongst the kids and makes his rounds saying hi to everyone (at least his version of hi-giving kisses and getting in people's faces). He is very social.

And my sweet girl that day. She is great at getting out and about.

Messes. This is what I found after being upstairs for maybe 10 minutes cooking dinner. A big DVD mess. Ev was quick to tell me this was all Hampton's doing.

Why going to Target yesterday made me feel like a champ. I went by myself.....for the first time...with all 3 babies! And it went great! On the 3 minute drive it takes to get there I went over with Everett my expectations for his behavior and what we would do. They were promised juice boxes and I immediately delivered. We had fun. They directed the trip. They were mesmerized by the Christmas lights. We stayed here for awhile. Everett wanted to see the bikes. So we did. He wanted me to get on a bike. So I did. We spend a large amount of time in the Halloween display. We picked out glow in the dark pumpkins. Everett said as we were walking out, "We had a good time didn't we?" We did. And I have restored confidence that I can do this mothering 3 small children thing.

Playing outside in Autumn. The crisp breeze and crunch of leaves under your feet is the best.

What's even better is going inside to the smell of chili in the crock pot. Oh and chocolate milk. I have had a craving for that lately. Which I indulged.

Oh-and a baby who can finally, at almost 19 months, stand up on his own. So proud of him. I think he is pretty proud of himself as well.

Have I mentioned yet she is so sweet!? Headband compliments of Aunt Mary.

Happy October!

The BIG Slide

2011-09-26T14:15:00.002-04:00

Everett going down the big slide! Unfortunately it is sideways. We were so proud of him!

Greek Festival

2011-09-26T13:56:00.011-04:00

Yesterday was very fun. After nap time we went to the Greek Festival in the downtown area of Asheville. We told Everett on the way there-when he asked where we were going-that we would listen to music, eat good food, and play. He was very excited! We definitely have more of a caravan now. We had the double stroller and Everett walked alongside.

We had the best ice-cream-Baklava and Pistachio.

They had a bunch of inflatables set-up. I was very unsure if Everett would want to go on any of them-but he shocked Eric and I and was fearless. These two "big boys" helped Everett up the big ladder and were able to convince him to go down the slide. He loved it and went many times!

He also loved the bounce house.

And Hampton loved the ball pit. He is so funny with other children. He is so social and always shares and tries to give his famous open mouth kisses!

Little Eleanor. She did so well! She napped part of the time and was happy and alert the remainder.

She also liked being carried in the Baby Bjourn.

The boys were exhausted afterward!

Saturday

2011-09-26T13:36:00.008-04:00

Saturday we had a nice day. We went to Chick Fil A for lunch. The boys love Chick Fil A and so do we! They had fun playing in the play area afterward. After lunch we went to Sam's Club to get a few things and then it was home for naps.

Eleanor looked so sweet in her dress and tights.
The handsome boys.

When everyone got up from naps we went to the Arboretum for a late afternoon walk and picnic dinner.

Everett loves to help. He did pretty well at pushing the stroller.

I love how she is smiling!

Eleanor got to dine al fresco as well. It was so beautiful that evening.

Such a great day with our family!

The Ham at 18 Months

2011-09-23T13:42:00.002-04:00

I can't believe my baby boy is 18 months! The other day I took him to his well child visit and here are his stats:

Hampton weighs almost 28 pounds and is in the 50-75th percentile. He is in the 75th percentile for height. His head circumference is in the 95th percentile. Hampton met and even excelled in all of his milestones with the exception of gross motor skills. Hampy is still not walking! He has demonstrated all the signs of almost walking. He cruises, stands for a few seconds on his own, climbs stairs and on top of furniture, and he even climbed down the ladder to our play set outside. He is just so unsure of letting go and taking steps independently. Our pediatrician recommended PT and at this point I am all for it. I am a firm believer in early intervention (which is good since I am a therapist myself!) and I am ready for some tips and an outside facilitator. I am going to try to schedule appointments while Everett is in preschool so I will only have Hampton and Eleanor. I am going to look at it as being a fun experience. Other things I want to remember about Hampton......
-He is very extroverted! He loves people and is social with perfect strangers.
-He is saying "no" a lot lately-including when I ask him to try to walk.
-His vocabulary expands every day. He says over 20 words and it keeps growing. For example, today he added "pumpkin" and "eat"
-He loves Everett-most of the time. He loves to give him hugs and open mouth kisses.
-He often will share his toys.
-He wears 18-24 month clothing.
-He also loves his baby sister and is a bit too rough with her!
-He loves to watch "Melmo" aka Elmo.
-He is super sweet and cuddly. On the same token, he'll turn on you in a second! He has a funny way of "yelling" at you. He has also recently had a problem with hitting and biting. This boy is definitely going to give us a run for our money.

I just love our Hampton. I've said it once and I will say it again-He is a GREAT addition to our family!

My Day with the Three

2011-09-20T09:53:00.009-04:00

Yesterday was my first day completely solo with the three babies. Overall I think it went well, however I was completely exhausted-by noon! Being up all night nursing a baby and then waking up to take care of a baby, toddler, and preschooler is some serious work. I wanted to document our day for memories sake. I documented every aspect of the day.

This picture is not from yesterday, but from Sunday night. We gave Hampton a chocolate chip cookie in the car on the way home from church and this was his face afterward.
Okay so here goes:
6:15-Eleanor woke up and I got her dressed for the day. By 7:00 the boys were up. They had waffles for breakfast and watched Sesame Street. 7:30-I nursed Eleanor and put her down for a nap in her nursery. Boys played in the playroom. 8:15- I did an art project with Everett while Hampton watched a video.
This is our project for the day.

And we made a caterpillar.

Everett expresses his own creativity with glitter glue and pom poms.

8:45-Eleanor is back up. She only wants to be held. 9:15-I transition Eleanor to her swing in the playroom and the boys and I play restaurant with play food. 9:45-Snack of applesauce and yogurt for the boys. 10:00-I nurse Eleanor.

Playing restaurant.

10:45-We all bundle up and go outside on the back deck to play. Everett and Hampton take turns pushing each other in the Cozy Coup car. Everett discovers a fuzzy caterpillar and is thrilled to share with Hampton. Eleanor nuzzles on my chest. I think I snuggled her in at least three blankets because of the chill in the air. 11:30- Boys have lunch.

12:00-Boys nap. 12;30-Eleanor is now awake and nurses. I watch the Dick Van Dyke show while I nurse her and try to eat some lunch. I also manage to pay some bills and make a few doctor's appointments. 2:00-Boys are back up and have a snack. I nurse Eleanor to sleep and put her in her nursery for another nap. 3:00-Eleanor is back up. Boys play. 3:30-Everett requests we do another art project-which we do. 4:00-We head back outside to play. It has warmed up a little more. 5:00-I try to fix dinner. 5:20-Eric is home!

I had a good day with the babies-a long day. It definitely had its share of meltdowns (only a few from me!), but some great moments as well. I was definitely ready by 7 to go have some girl time with friends. Happy to have survived the day and completely blessed to be home with our babies.

Week with Nonny

2011-09-18T09:36:00.011-04:00

This past week my mom came to visit. I was especially happy to see her since Eric was going to be out of town on business. The boys love Nonny and had so much fun with her. We got a lot done and were busy with activity.

Mom and the babies at Biltmore Park
On Sunday afternoon we went to the Biltmore Square Mall. It has been almost a year since we have been to a mall and Everett was fascinated. He was very interested in the mannequins and kept calling them "people." I'm not convinced he didn't think they were real since he was a bit cautious. I was excited to buy Eleanor a few things and a new dress. Have I mentioned having a girl is so fun!? That night my mom made chicken noodle soup and we had slow cooker applesauce.

At Biltmore Park

On Monday we went to the Asheville Mall. This mall is much better and there is more to it. We decided on a whim to get the boys pictures taken at Picture People. Since we weren't prepared, I ran into Baby Gap and picked out new polos for the boys. We managed to get a least one decent picture of Everett and Hampton together and one of all three. We had to work for it though!

Hampton looking sweet at Biltmore Park

On Tuesday we dropped off Everett at preschool in the morning and then took Hampton and Eleanor to the aboretum. It was a beautiful morning and a bit cool-so perfect. Hampton pushed his little walker around the whole place. We then had lunch at the cafe. We spent three hours there!

Everett at Bilmore Park. He loved his cotton candy ice-cream!

On Wednesday we went back to the mall (for not having gone to the mall in almost a year, I sure made up for it this week). I bought Everett some new shoes and then we had lunch at Chick fil A, which my boys love. That evening we went to dinner at Brixx pizza and then had Coldstone for desert.

Little sis wearing a cute dress! I've had this dress since I was pregnant with Everett and I was convinced I was having a girl.

Nonny and Hampton at the arboretum.

Taken from my mom's iPhone-Little sis.

Hampton harassing people trying to eat at Biltmore Park

Just sweet

In between activities we also did a few crafts and organized a few things. Looking forward to when she comes back for a visit soon!

Saturday from the Camera Phone

2011-09-11T20:19:00.007-04:00

Yesterday was a very busy and productive day. We had a "to do" list of about 15 items and got them all done! Definitely had time for fun in between chores though.

The boys watching some Georgia football.
While the boys played outside, I ran some errands. I was able to go to Wal-Mart, Target, Micheals, and get a pedicure! Of course I did have to stop home in the middle of it all in order to nurse Eleanor.

Even Eleanor enjoyed some fresh air. She is such a sweet baby!

It was such beautiful weather.

Hampton pushing Everett!

When I was driving into our subdivision after finishing my errands some of the neighborhood kids had set-up a lemonade stand. So we gathered the children and walked down the big hill with a mission to buy some. However, by the time we got there it was gone! Luckily we had some lemonade at home, which they loved. Perfect end to the day.

First Bath

2011-09-09T18:54:00.003-04:00

Yesterday afternoon I gave Eleanor her first tub bath. She loved it, however it was a challenge as I had to hold her in place with one hand and wash her with the other.

All fresh and clean after her bath.

Morning Play Date

2011-09-09T18:44:00.006-04:00

Eric's mom left early this morning (after being here all week to help) so that left me with all three babies! Fortunately I had already set-up a morning play date with Sally Ann and her girls. Such a big help, plus we love their company.

Abigail and Everett went to town with play dough. I had to distract Hampton with another activity because he kept eating it!

They stayed for the majority of the morning. It was so funny having five kids now who are three and under! Here is Sally Ann having "story time" before naps.

And little Eleanor pretty much slept the entire time. She sleeps wonderfully in her crib in her room at night, however during the day wants to nap where all the action is.

I have to say I have gained confidence that I can handle the three on my own now. It just takes a lot of preparation and organization......and patience! It also helps that sweet Eleanor Jane has such an easy temperament.

Two and a Half Weeks

2011-09-07T17:02:00.002-04:00

Lil sis had a doctor's visit this morning. I was very interested to see how much weight she had put on. 9 days ago at our first doctor's appointment she weighed 6 pounds 2 ounces. Well today she weighed 6 pounds 15 ounces. Only 1 ounce away from 7 pounds! She is doing great.

She nurses every 3 hours, almost to the minute.
She wakes up about 3 times during the night to nurse and then goes right back to sleep.
She sleeps in her crib during the night, however likes to be near me for her naps during the day.
She rarely crys, except when she is ready to eat.
Her cord stump fell off a few days ago, so she now can have a tub bath (which we haven't done yet).
Eleanor's temperment is amazingly sweet. She is starting to wake up from "newborn coma" a bit and is staying alert for longer stretches of time.

We just love this sweet pink baby and so do our boys!

4 Reasons

2011-09-07T16:54:00.003-04:00

There are 4 reasons why turning 30 today isn't sad or depressing.......

Reason 1
Reason 2

Reason 3

and reason 4......my completely amazing husband! So long 20's. You were good to me, however I feel like my life is really just getting started.

Time with the Babies

2011-09-04T17:32:00.004-04:00

Trying to balance time with all 3 babies will definitely take some thought. Right now most of my time is spent with Eleanor nursing and holding her. I have been blessed that with each child I have had the opportunity to spend special one-on-one time with them their first week. This has been so important in establishing a bond. So, this has been our set-up for the past week......
The other day however I got out with just my boys. Eric and Eleanor stayed at the house and rested. We are waiting at least a month before we take Eleanor out into the world. My attempts to keep germs away! I loved spending this time with the boys and I felt "normal" once again.

We went to Barnes and Noble.

We had fun, even if I was a little wore out afterward.

And now I am typing this with one hand as I nurse our littlest babe. Such a sweet addition to our family.

Pretty

2011-09-02T13:08:00.017-04:00

Eric and I did a photo shoot with Eleanor Jane this afternoon. Eric played photographer. I played assistant. Eleanor played model. Here are some of my favorites.

Good Day

2011-09-01T09:10:00.006-04:00

We had a good day yesterday. Have I mentioned I love having Eric home!?!

Eleanor basked in the sun for awhile.
While Eric was at story time with the boys, Yvonne our sitter came over for a visit with Eleanor.

During nap I made Eleanor a new bow.

And I played some with this little one. He looks so big compared to Eleanor!

Eric took the boys to Target and let them pick out a "big brother" gift. They got some new Legos.

And the boys are still enamoured with little sis.

To top off the day, my good friend Sally Ann came over last night for some girl time. Much needed!

A Few Firsts

2011-08-30T12:08:00.008-04:00

Yesterday Eleanor went to her first pediatrician's appointment. She is doing great. When we left the hospital she weighed 6 pounds (5 ounces lower than her birth weight) and now she weighs 6 pounds 2 ounces. She has a touch of jaundice, but doesn't need any intervention. She was excited to ride in her car seat again and slept the whole way there. She doesn't get out right now, so I dressed her up for her appointment.

And today was Everett's first day back to preschool. I can't believe he is now in the 3's class. His teacher's name is Mrs. Stevens and she is so sweet.

I drew this heart on Everett's hand and kissed it. I told him if he gets nervous or misses mommy, to just look at "mommy's kiss."

He had a great morning at preschool and had a lot to say when I picked him up. We then went to a bakery and he picked out a gingerbread cookie as a special treat.

Now all babies are napping and Eric and I are looking forward to hanging out together. By the way, I am loving having him home this week!

Little Flower and the Boys

2011-08-27T18:57:00.008-04:00

We had a good day today. Gigi joined us again for the weekend. Eleanor and I spent most of our day lounging. I love this. For lunch Eric and I got out for about an hour and went to Panera. I haven't been out at all so it was great. I was ready and eager to get home again though. This afternoon, Eric and Gigi took the boys to the arboretum.

Hampton pushed his walker all around.
And Everett loved running around.

I love this face.

I love these boys.

And I love this little flower.

She likes her bouncy seat and even took one of her many naps in it today. What she does not love is her crib and being alone in her room. We are having a hard time with this right now and last night it took awhile for her to go to sleep.

Sleep

2011-08-26T17:09:00.005-04:00

Last night was great. Eleanor woke up at 11, 2:30, and 5:30 to nurse. She would nurse, burp, get her diaper changed, and then go back to sleep. I don't think I could ask anything more from a newborn. I keep also having to remember that she is three weeks early. She has been so great! Also, not to be pessimistic, however I know that this could all change in an instant. However, for now I will be happy with a good night and keep praying for more! Today mama and Eleanor continued our rest and recovery mostly upstairs in the bedroom. She is starting to have more awake time during the day. Today she lounged in her bouncy seat while looking around for quite some time.

And here is a picture of the biggest brother and little sis that Gigi took. He is so sweet with her.

Rest and Recovery

2011-08-25T17:37:00.003-04:00

Today's focus has been obtaining more rest and continuing to recover. Eleanor did well last night. She slept in her own room and woke up to nurse. She had a hard time getting back to sleep after nursing and just wanted to be rocked and held. Eric did a great job with that! Gigi was with us today and helped out with our rowdy boys, which allowed us to rest even more. Most of the day Eleanor was doing this...... However she did have small periods where she was awake.

Eric and I even got to take an almost 2 hour nap when the boys and Eleanor were sleeping. Glorious!

Gigi has now left and all the babies are due for a bath. So grateful our friend Sally Ann dropped off dinner for us. I'd say it has been a pretty good day. The transition from 2-3 hasn't hit us quite yet, but so far so good. The boys are just loving little sis and are so interested in her, especially Everett. Looking forward to a few more days of rest.

Homecoming

2011-08-24T19:05:00.005-04:00

Today we had a good day. Last night Eleanor did great. She was a bit fussy in the early morning hours and just wanted to be held. She settled eventually though and we were able to get some sleep. Today has been another low key day. I saw my doctor, Eleanor saw her pediatrician, and we met with the lactation consultant. I am recovering well and got discharged. Eleanor is doing great too. Her blood work was within normal limits and she only lost 5 ounces. She is nursing well so far too.

Some of Eleanor's gifts. Everybody has been so sweet.
Little miss has been sleeping most of the day. We were anxious all day to get home.

We got her dressed up to come home. She looked so precious in this dress. It is so fun having a girl.

She slept during the car ride.

When we got home the boys were playing in the front yard with Gigi. They were so happy to see us! Everett has already warmed up to Eleanor and Hampton is in love. He kept giving her her blanket and can't stop saying "baby!" We are now settled in. We got Carrabbas take out and Eleanor and I are now resting. Praying for somewhat of a peaceful night, but no matter what we feel overwhelmingly blessed.

Today with Eleanor

2011-08-23T19:32:00.010-04:00

Today has been great! We are just smitten by this sweet little girl. Gail, Everett, and Hampton came to see us this morning! Hampton and Everett had very different reactions to their sister. Hampton went crazy yelling "baby, baby, baby" and wanting to hold her/kiss her/squeeze her. Everett was very unsure. He said things such as "she not going to get me" and "I not scared of her." He also kept insisting we put her back to her crib and asking me to get out of bed. He will warm up to her though. I think he was just confused by the whole situation.

Hampton is now a big brother too!

Our family of five. I am in a bit of shock at the amount of children we have now. Going from two to three kids does make a difference. Eric and I are now officially outnumbered!

Eleanor already loves her Gigi.

Eleanor in her first pair of pajamas. I have a feeling we will be wearing a lot of these in weeks to come as we hibernate at home.

Modeling one of her hair bows. She has a milk mouth here!

She is already a daddy's girl. I just love that.

Today other than visiting with the boys this morning, we have had a low key day. She nurses about every 3 hours. We ordered lunch from Jimmy Johns. We watched television. We napped occasionally. We have had a nice day. Now praying we have a restful night. More to come I'm sure!

Eleanor Jane's Birth Story

2011-08-23T18:18:00.010-04:00

Yesterday did not start off quite like any other day. Soon after Eric had just gone off to work, I started having moderate-intense contractions. Friday morning I had experienced some of this, which turned out to be false labor, so I really doubted myself if this could be the real thing. Around 9ish, I could barely walk, and I had a hard time taking care of the boys. Poor Everett kept asking me if my belly hurt. I think I was making him nervous! I talked to Eric and kept telling him it was nothing. I called my friend Sally Ann and asked her to come over as soon as possible so I could figure some things out. She was there within 10 minutes. I then called the doctor's office, explained everything and they got me an appointment within the hour. I left the house thinking I would be back soon. On the way to the office the contractions intensified and when the doctor checked me I was 4cm and 70% effaced. He advised me to get to the hospital quickly as I was definitely in labor. I then called Eric and told him to meet me at the hospital. Once I got there, he arrived within minutes. Yesterday I turned 37 weeks. I delivered both Everett and Hampton the day I turned 37 weeks. I guess there is some switch in my body that knows it is time when each baby is then full-term. We all thought this labor was going to be quick since last year Hampton was born under 2 hours. This labor was different however as my water did not break on its own and it took me longer to dilate. In fact, I labored with Everett for 8 hours, Hampton for 2, and Eleanor close to 9 hours! She just took her time. In fact, I ended up having to get a second epidural since my first wore off; however right when the anesthesiologist finished taping me up, I was ready to push. I pushed for close to 9 minutes and then she was out! She arrived at 3:50pm.

She is a pretty pink color and has a head of curly black hair.

It looks like she is waving here.

Sweet girl weighs 6 pounds 5 ounces (same as Hampton's weight) and is 19 inches long. She looked so petite I had guessed around 5 pounds. Still a healthy weight since she was 3 weeks early.

She nursed right before we went up to the mother/baby unit. She did great!

I love this girl!

Right before we left the delivery room.

Last night Eleanor slept great. She woke up in the middle of the night and nursed for about 40 minutes. Other than that she slept completely through the night. Unfortunately I was not able to sleep. I guess it was the adrenaline or hormones, or both but I barely slept all night. Today has been going well as well. She nurses every 3 hours for about 30 minutes each session. She is doing great with that and I am so proud of her. She saw her pediatrician today as well and is healthy thus far. Praying she can discharge tomorrow. More updates to come, but we are in heaven with this sweet girl.

Apple Dumplin' Gang

2011-08-20T13:59:00.012-04:00

This morning we went with our friends, the Mertens to an apple orchard. We had so much fun! Everett was very excited that the first thing he got to do was play on a swingset. I love how Abigail and Everett look like they are having a deep conversation in this picture.

Eric, Hampton, and a goat. Hampton kept pointing to it and saying, "baaa."

Everett was brave enough to feed the goats.

A classic Hampton facial expression.

Feeding the ducks. Everett gave the rest of his apple to one of them.

What very well may be our last family picture as a family of four. Next time we come here, we will have Eleanor with us!

Now we have a bushel (or is it a peck?) of apples to make some apple pie and applesauce!

Pictures from the Park

2011-08-20T13:39:00.014-04:00

Yesterday afternoon we took the boys to the park. It was hot, but not too hot. It was nice because we were the only ones there. When Everett was given the okay, he just ran toward the playground. This little one is coming along with learning to walk, but he has not taken his first steps independently yet. He can walk holding our hand, but mostly he just crawled around.

We did have them wear walking/running shoes though! Hampton walks better in these than his Crocs.

Everett never stopped running from the moment we got there. Such a great way to burn off some little boy energy!

I love his chubby cheeks and blueberry eyes.

Still on the move. Poor guy kept asking me to chase him or crawl through the tunnel. Not possible 9 months pregnant however.

I kept telling Hampton to get up and walk, and he kept shaking his head no.

I know he is three, but he still looks like a baby to me. I love that.

Morning Playdate and Friends

2011-08-18T14:36:00.009-04:00

My good friend Sally Ann watched our babies this morning so Eric and I could go to our doctor's appointment. I am impressed with Sally Ann as she watched 4 babies 3 and under. Everett and Hampton had such a fun time! So grateful and blessed by good friends.

Everett loves babies! Also funny, Hampton has also been calling Everett a "baby" recently.
Sally Ann said they cooked quite a bit.

And here is Hampton the artist. I couldn't believe he could do this.

On My Toes

2011-08-18T13:15:00.004-04:00

These little guys keep me on my toes lately! Yesterday I was in the living room and the boys were playing. Hampton had been in the kitchen for maybe 2 minutes and was being way too quiet. I thought he was playing with his train...... But no. He had gotten into one of the drawers and took out all the Zip lock bags and dish towels.

Then Everett took a quick break from his wild behavior to take a nap.

I had my 36 week appointment today. She is measuring right on track, heartbeat is good, and I have not progressed since last week. I am still 1cm and 50% effaced. I am happy because I do believe she will get to term, however I am a bit disappointed because I was kind of hoping to be a bit farther. My OB still thinks she will arrive soon, however you just never know! We have plans to relax this weekend and enjoy our family of four before things change once again.

Baby Hair

2011-08-17T17:14:00.004-04:00

Yesterday I took Everett to get his hair cut. We only do this maybe about twice a year and it had been awhile. Since he is starting preschool soon, we had to get him cleaned up! This is the before picture. Everett was borderline infatuated with this cut-out. He asked me to take his picture with it.

This is the first time Everett ever sat in the chair by himself.

And the after picture. He was excited to get a blue lollipop for his big boy behavior. It is hard to tell how it looks here because it is still wet, but I was very pleased with the results. He is turning into such a big boy!

Afterward we ran through the car wash, so Everett said it was "my best day." So happy it doesn't take much to please little ones.

Cubby Bear

2011-08-12T11:05:00.000-04:00

I don't know if he can get any sweeter............

Pregnancy Update and Eleanor's Nursery

2011-08-12T10:31:00.020-04:00

I had my 35 week appointment yesterday. Everything went well. I am measuring right at 35 weeks and her heartbeat is strong. I am 1 cm dilated and 50% effaced. My OB predicts at this rate we definitely won't make it to our due date (Sept. 12), but is confident we can make it to 37 weeks. I really want her to be full-term, so I am praying she can wait just another week. I have another appointment next Thursday, so we will see where we are at that point. We are very excited to meet her! Here are some of her headbands. I have enjoyed making some of them.

And her closet! It has been so fun adding to her wardrobe and of course I had to have pink hangers.

One of her plaques.

A plaque my sister made for her.

Looking out her window. I love that our crepe myrtle in the front yard has just blossomed with beautiful pink flowers. Just in time for her arrival!

I was very pleased with how the wall decal turned out.

The "taggie" on the table is a gift our friend Jordan made for her. I was very impressed.

Some prints we ordered off Etsy and framed.

They worked perfectly in the room.

A cute doll my mom got for her. I can't wait to fill that frame with a picture!

Her bedding. Hampton has already broken this in as he has been sleeping in her room for nap time.

I love how her nursery turned out! It is such a bright, yet cozy room. I am very excited for her to see it.

A New Form of Transportation

2011-08-11T13:43:00.003-04:00

Yay Books!

2011-08-10T13:25:00.004-04:00

This morning we went to story time at our library. Today's theme was birthday parties. Blurry picture once again, taken from my phone-I keep forgetting to grab my camera. Everett likes to sit in the back of the room for story time. Hampton however likes to be in the center amongst all the kids. He is so social! I was impressed watching him from the back of the room as he was able to follow directions from the librarian. For example, she would say clap your hands or pat your head - and he would do it! She also brought out a cow puppet and he squealed saying "moo moo!"

After story time we went and checked out a few books. I got "Dick and Jane" to read to Everett. Everett even got a free book today since he has now completed the summer reading program. I also checked out the first Harry Potter book for myself. I thought it would be fun to start that series.

Here are the babies outside the library. It was a bit tricky holding Hampton, my purse, and our books while also holding Everett's hand out in the parking lot. We made it to our van thankfully, but I was praying no one would melt down before we got there. They saved the meltdowns for the car ride home!

I am not so sure if I will be able to manage this type of outing with three little ones. I'd like to think that I could, but I am also trying to be realistic. Thankfully Everett starts morning preschool (Tuesdays and Thursdays) later this month. I will then be down to two those mornings.

I am so excited to meet our little girl! I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, so we'll see if any progress has been made. If I have her when the boys were born, that is only a week and a half!

Cake!

2011-08-10T13:07:00.004-04:00

Last Saturday Everett and I went to celebrate our friend Abigail's second birthday. The theme was ladybugs and it was so cute. Everett was very excited that there would be cake. The birthday girl.

We actually managed to get a picture with all the kids (there was a promise of cake to follow).

Everett had a great time! I am sure there will be a lot of birthday parties ahead.